Advice Please! Im going to be meeting my boyfriends son!

Me and my boyfriend havent been together long, almost 2 months, and soon I will be meeting his son. I dont know why he even want to do that! We’re going to Six Flags, its going to be me and my boyfriend and then his son and his girlfriend. If his son was younger, maybe it would be cool, or if I was older.. But I think it will be weird because his son is 13 and Im 19… We’re going in like 3 weeks and Im already nervous! Please help, just any advice or words of encouragement

Answer #1

um well I don’t even understand why you’re dating a guy that has a 13 year old son if you’re 19. that has to make him at least like, what, 30? get someone your own age. only 2 months? that’s rushing anything.

Answer #2

Yeah thats true, I remember that lol. Then esp since Im out of high school and in college. lol thanks… thats very true.

What if the son tells my boyfriends mom.. what will she think??

I date older guys all the time, I’ve just never gotten to this point with them.

Answer #3

Also, when you are 13, you think that being 19 is waaay older. Believe me, it won’t be weird.

Answer #4

Well.. seen as your his Dad’s girlfriend, he will already see you as mature. You are dating his Dad. He will instantly see you as an adult.. not a teenager. You have nothing to be worried about. Just have fun with him. Its a good opportunity to impress your new boyfriend.

Answer #5

if you are not ready to meet his son just tell him that you would like to continue seeing him but you feel that 2 months is not a long enough time to be introduced to his son. that you would rather be together 6 months or longer bc it is a big step. if you are just nervous you should try to relax. you must be a mature 19 to be dating an older man so just be yourself. dont worry about if you are liked or disliked. just try to have fun.

Answer #6

If your boyfriend isn’t much older than you I don’t see why she would have a problem.

But If your boyfriend is a lot older than you and his son tells his mum and she isn’t crazy on the idea of you both going out.. you’ll just have to arrange to meet her and make a good first impression. I’m sure you’re a nice girl so just be yourself and you’ll be fine.

Answer #7

ok ok, that helped a little bit lol, thanks… Ima need some more though lol

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