adopted I need all the help I can get

I think that it would at least be nice to maybe meet them and be close and keep in touch, but in my view, the family you were adopted into are your real family, they have raised you up, they have cared for you, loved you like they were their own, they have been through all of the potty training, school, walking and everything like that, they have been there for you all your life, and that to me is what a parent is, they are someone who cares for you and is there for you.

And they have, so I would probably stay with the family you are currently with, you said yourself you love them.

Thats just my opinion though, it is completely up to you, its your decision.

All the best

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Look at the real side of your life and what YOU want,look at what they went through to raise you and also think of what your life would be like if you were to go and live with your birth mom and dad. Honestly don’t leave the family you have lived with your whole life because they did raise you to this day as a good person,just mainly look at the real side of your life and what it would be like if you went back to them,everything doesn’t turn out the way you always plan it. Good luck!

Raven

You don’t need to leave your adopted family just because your birth mother wants you in her life.

You can still live your life the way you always have, with your “mom” and “dad”, but still have a relationship with your birth parents.

I don’t think your adoptive parents mean for you to go live with your birth parents - remember, they adopted you…that means they wanted you and still do.

you meeting your biological parents doesnt mean that you love your real partents any less. those are the people that loved and raised you as their own but haveing your biological in your life could be good too its double the support and it would be fun to find out where certain characteristics you have came from, maybe they could all meet after all them giving you up was a completely selfless act they knew they couldnt take care of you the way an adult could it wasnt because they didnt want you give it a chance