What do 1st base, 2nd base, etc, mean in regards to relationships?

I see people from America using them all the time, but I have honestly never heard people from England using them.. I know they’re the stages of how far you “get” with a girl, but what do they actually mean?

Answer #1

Here it’s: 1st- make out 2nd- feel 3rd- oral 4th- all the way – but after awhile people actually get mature and don’t refer it as that.

Answer #2

the bases: 1st- making out or french kissing… I think the English call it snogging 2nd- fingering/handjob 3rd- licking out bj 4th- full sex

Answer #3

I’m not planning on referring to it as that, I was merely curious :)

Answer #4

Yeah, we use the word “snogging” although we’re familiar with the terms you used :)

Answer #5

Actually that’s not true. 1st base- the light kisses you’d give on the first few dates. 2nd base- making out, snogging heavy. 3rd base- the sexual experimenting. Homerun- going all the way.

Answer #6

“french, feel, finger, fu.ck” no, i would not actually say that except thats how ive always heard it

but basically what everyone is saying 1st: kissing 2nd: touching 3rd: handjob/fingering, or oral homerun: sex

and people I know dont actually use the bases, they stopped when they matured enough to realize there should be a lot more to a relationship than “getting around the bases”

Answer #7

snogging?? lol

Answer #8

it all depends on the person.

Answer #9

wow kimi home run? that i didn’t know .. haha tnx

Answer #10

“the bases” are different for everyone

Answer #11

1st= Kiss 2nd= Touching boobs 3rd= Oral 4th= Having sex

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