Do you/does your partner go into your purse or wallet and do you find it appropriate?

I wud never go in my bf’s wallet, its none of my buisness and he is to not go in my purse as well, he feels the same as I, its non eof his buisness wats in my purse

My wife can go through my wallet if she wants, but has never done so, I do not dig around in her purse. In fact my wife ask me at times to get things out of her purse for her and I hate it, it is such a mess.

Everything in my home is “Ours”. If my husband needs something out of my purse, he is welcome to go and take it. I just ask that he let me know if he takes something.

Well, Im very caring of my things, I guess you could say. I dont like people touching my stuff without asking because I take good care of it, theres a specific place for everything,and it’s my stuff,I have nothing to hide, if he wants or needs something of mine no mattr where it is, he needs to ask,and vie versa. It’s not that I dont trust him or that there’s something I dont want him seeing, I just like to know where my thingsare at all times. I dont care if it’s a hair tie (Corey has long hair and uses mine) or if it’s a million dollars, you ask first. :)

I don’t mind at all- I will sometimes tell him specifically not to go in it, as I might have a present for him or something in there that I don’t want him to see, but normally it is fine. I let him take my card and things sometimes if he needs to as he has no cash. As long as he lets me know something has been taken from my bag, I don’t mind, as I can always ask for it back or replace it if he needs whatever it was. I would always ask before going in his wallet, but neither of us have an issue. I am sure if either had anything to hide anyway then we would do so in a much more private place where it could not be found.

I don’t mind as long as he tells me what he is taking. You see the thing is I lose things often and forget things so if someone takes something without my knowledge I think that I forgot it somewhere and that makes me angry.

I dont mind my boyfriend going through my wallet or purse, there is nothing interesting in there anyway! I would have a problem with him checking my email or mail etc, but we dont mind going into each others wallets etc. He always tells me if he has taken anything.

No long term partner, but in my home growing up, my parents didn’t really have a ‘mine’ and ‘yours’ attitude. My dad doesnt have a wallet (yes, he walks around without a wallet) and my mum’s purse had basically medication, makeup, and money. They didnt really go into each other’s stuff, but it wasnt a big deal. I mean even I can walk off with something without informing them. I dunno what would be so important that we’d need to ask or tell each other before taking stuff.

i’ve been taught by my mum never too look into her purse, but as a kid our curiosity overwhelms us and often we arn’t restricted to opening things and seeing stuff but often it is considered rude i think it’s acceptable but if you dislike it let them know

If you are serious about this relationship then you shouldn’t have such an intense need for privacy that him rummaging through your things would bother you. When you are in a real committed couple, you have to function like what’s yours is his and vice versa, after all presumably you are already sharing your hearts with one another, what could be more precious than that

It would be very rude of them

No she doest and it should not matter. Unless there is somthing missing.

I live with my baby brother and we go through each other’s wallet / purse. I tend to have a look in my brother’s wallet to see if he needs more cash and usually slip a $50 or $100 in there. The only rule I set is, if my brother takes my saving or credit card, he has to place it back inside my purse when he gets home, as there has been time when I needed to use my one of my cards and find one of the card isn’t in my purse, that is when I get pretty pi-ssed off and ring him up, right there at the shops to give him an earful.

i dont do that n niether does my bf. thats just lack of trust. if theres no trust the relationship is doomed.