Would you let your girlfriend have a 3sum with a guy?

I learned a very hard lesson with this question — One that ended a 24 year old marriage, broke up my family and cost us our home. My wife wanted to do a MMF 3some and at first the fantasies was great but once real life kicked in and seeing another man having sex with the woman I was in love with broke my heart. I could not keep an erection and later on I told my wife I never wanted to do it again. So she went out behind my back and was having an affair with this guy. Now our home is gone and our marriage is over and there will never be any trust between us again. Ask your self this one question “IS IT WORTH IT, COULD THIS BREAK US APART — HOW IS IT MAKINGING ANYTHING BETTER BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU IF THERE IS A THIRD WHEEL IN THE PICTURE — ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS YOU AND YOUR GIRLFRIEND MAY HAVE ONE THING IN MIND BUT THE 3RD PERSON MAY COME INTO THIS WITH THE THOUGHT WHAT’S GOOD FOR HIMSELF — HE WILL HAVE NO CARES FOR YOU OR YOUR RELATIONSHIP” I think the fantasy is better then the real thing. — DO NOT DO IT!!!

Considering you not only cheated on her, but had a threesome with her and her female friend already…you didn’t see this coming? You’re being pretty selfish.

I would and I do… my girlfriend is quite hot in a rocker/stripper chick kinda way and we are both 24… we have a profile on an adult dating site where we find same age or ypunger guys to have threesomes with..they must be in good shape, attractive, nice package and clean and after about a month of video chatting we meet at a nice hotel and get it on.. we have done this 3 times in the past 11 months and it has always been lots of fun.. seein these eager younger dudes gettin it on with my big boobed hottie really gets me going..so I find the thing is to be open and in my case we only use strangers so that there is no awkwardness later on..on and condoms and lube very important!!

if anything it might make your relationship a bit better, I you still love each other, id say do it, just make sure not to get jelouse about it. as she let you have a threesome she probably wants a threesome too, to make it fair, ask her if shed be happy after it. and if thatll be it for the threesoms if she just wanst it because you had one, its likly that she just wants to make it all even between you, so I might be a good idea to go with it and let her have it then again though, its your decision, if you dont feel comfortable doing it dont, but I would guess that the relationship might be a little better in the end if you did

Update: we did it last night and now Im feeling different about her…I couldnt get hard at all last night because it was so hard for me to see him having sex with her… what should I do now?…