would like your advice

hey I’m 21yr been taking my father who is in and out the hospital he’s ill and my brother from when I was 18yrs and now I feel like I’m missing so much from my youth I took allot of time helping my family, I have not had a girl friend for 3yrs and I feel like I’m missing something in my life ..I;m not good at attraction I would like to but I’m a looser in that department,I’m still a shy guy need to overcome my shyness dont know what to do really would like you advice .

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It takes a lot of patience and self-sacrifice to do the things you’ve done for your family, and you should feel good about yourself…just in that alone, I can say you are far from being a loser.

You’re right, though - you are missing some very important years in your life. You’re a young, attractive man and with that added to your humble personality, you’re just the kind of guy most girls are looking for.

Shyness is a difficult thing to overcome, but it does fade once you start to build confidence. You have so much to take pride in that you should have an abundance of confidence.

Perhaps if you put less pressure on yourself it would make meeting girls easier. Look at meeting them as a way to just make friends, and don’t think too much about it becoming a relationship. Once those girls have a chance to get to know you, you won’t have to push too much to find one who will admire you more than a friend.

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