Is it wise for some one to get married to somebody who can not read, write and spell?

When it comes to marriage, you marry the one you love. Reading and writing are so important these days. It would be very wise for this person to take classes in basic reading and writing. But it shouldn’t be a reason for not being with the one you love.

ok true you may love them and its great and all but seriously think of the future… Probably living in the projects because that person can’t get a decent job…

YES IT IS. There are these many people who can not read, write nor spell, yet they make very excellently smart children. Love is heart’s business. If love them then you can always marry them despite their disability to read or write. My foster mother could not read and write. Yet I am very proud of her.

If you truly love them then why does this matter.

love is love..more specific, love isn’t based on ur knowledge. My mom can’t read or write, she speaks a little English and my dad who got an education married her despite what she can’t do.. Now my mom is a housewife, she obviously cools and cleans and takes care of the kids meanwhile my dad provides food, shelter and clothing for us. Point is, don’t let things like that stop you from marring someone you love! I mean, my sister is dating a disabled guy, also mental not to be offensive and everybody went against her dating him, in my eyes their the happiest couples..

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I got to scream out for this one: AGREEEEEEEEEEEDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thats pretty cool. But I am just thinking of the future for the kids… but if I could “like” this again I would

thanks to both:) slashdown u do have a valid point, however, your kids can still be educated. My cousin is a lawyer and her parents don’t even know the meaning of “good day” yet their kids got a wonderful education. I think this is up to the parents, if they really want their kids to have the best education they will encourage them:)

thanx hehe!

Yes, why not?

Not being able to read and write is a serious handicap these days. For reading and writing but not for loving. I also think that people can overcome handicaps more easily together than alone. And why would it be wise to only marry if there are no problems to be expected? It is, of course, more comfortable to have a partner who is completely autonomous and doesn’t need your help on anything. But is going the most comfortable way wise?

And you can do something about it. If an adult person hasn’t been able to learn it yet, that doesn’t mean they never can. If he or she has a loving partner who encourages him/her that will make it so much easier.

bye the sheep

It is not wise to be in any relationship where you question marriage. A relationship should be considered as marriage itself. It is only because of law, religious, and social beliefs that we “tie the knot”. So if u are in a relationship the same laws of marriage should be there or else you or your partner will depend on marriage to better the relationship and this may cause false hope which is just not fair.

Yes, being unable to read does not indicate that they are stupid. Maybe they only did not have a chance to go to school when they were kids due to some reasons. My foster mother could not even sign and always use finger printer, yet she is a wellknown chef in our village. She did earn money since my foster father died when I was only 10.

No. Just plain no.

Like Jenndue Said !! Love Is Love !! It doesnt matter if he/she cant read or just have a different color !! The Language of Love Dsnt Have any exeptions :))

i cant read write or spell and im married

if you really love this person you would care about that, nobodies perfect and when you fall in love you love some one for who they are not what you want. you just need to remember why you really fell in love with him and let you heart guide the way cause in the end it you that is married to him not any of us,

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the heart doesnt think with the mind… the heart wants what the heart wants. bt if u want to be wise about it teach that person to read, write n spell :)