Why would a guy do that?

Okay here is the deal. Me and this guy have been talking for a while now and we recently told each other that we had strong feelings for each other. We always talked like almost everyday. Then during the week I was to make my decision on whether stay at home for school and see where our relationship could grow or go to school which is an hour away from home. I thought it didnt matter which school I went to because if it was meant to be it was meant to be. Anyway during the week I was to make this decision he all of a sudden stopped calling me. The last time I spoke to him was last tuesday and he said that he would call me back but he never did. I just want to know why someone who acted like they were so sprung over me and kept sayin how he has never met someone like me before and even said that I was the 1st girl he ever trusted that hes been dating.I recently called him on thursday but he has yet to call me back. I don’t get why a guy would do something like that because that really hurt my feelings.

Answer #1

Sounds like it’s one of two things. Either he was just leading you to believe that he had feelings for you and really didn’t or he started to freak out about things because he really did have feeelings for you and just didn’t want to get attached or be tied down to a relationship.

Answer #2

Sounds like he’s saving you a lot of time…and letting you know hes not worth getting involved with because he can’t keep a promise to you….and doesn’t seem to be that into you or he would have called you 6 times by now…he’s just immature…not your fault….boys just take longer to grow up.

Answer #3

tell him how you feel and that he hurt your feelings by not calling.. see if that changes anything and if it doesnt then hes not worth it.. he probably did that to see how serious you are about him and how much you care. some guy did the same thing to me and after i told him how i felt he ened up calling me but thats besides the point he might just be busy a lot, give it time and see what he does.

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