Why are friends sooo annoying?

firstly, your friends shouldn’t be swearing, actually, at you. that’s very unnecassary…and denotes a certain lack of respect…

and there is a HUGE difference between boasting and being happy for yourself. I got my maths exam results back from uni and I got 97% and a B for my essay, I was sooo excited because’ I thought I had failed, and who I thought was a really good friend said he had 98%. I know he failed his essay, but I had a couple of friends who had got A’s on their essay’s and others who got 100% on their exam, and I was really happy and excited for them. anyway, so I ring my friend and say, oh my god (repeat 100 in high pitch squeel) I got 97% and a B, he replied with “I failed the essay and got 98% on exam. I was like, that’s great, see you did really well!, and you can just redo the essay, I’m so sorry” I was genuinly disappointed for him.

however, I find out a few weeks later that he lied about his exam, he only got 88% - he lied! I asked him why, he was like “you were just so excited and ‘oooh I got this’ that I lied. if you got 100%, I’d have got 101%!” can you believe this is a friend? I couldn’t so I have kept my dstance BIG time!

the point is, sometimes we’re just really happy about something, and we can’t contain our excitement, and everyone is entitled to feel happy about something they achieved or got. and in my opinion, they should be happy for you and embrace your moment of happiness. I had friends who got A’s and 100%, as I said, and I was genuinly chuffed to bits for them. I know I didn’t get the grade they did, but I just think ‘how would I feel’ and it’s easy to conclude I would be bouncing off the walls with joy!

find some new friends…honestly, I know its harder than it sounds, but these people don’t sound like they have any respect for you, or consideration for your feelings…and you value yourself by the people you assosiate with, as do society…