Why people talk negative about other people?

Why when people that are family or coworkers get together they spend their time talking negative about other people. Like if there is a family that keep their house messy then the other people will pick that target and will talk bad about the messy house but they keep going putting the people down from what they wear to the car they drive etc.

The same happens with coworkers. There will always be a person to talk bad about. But if everybody is around then the talk will be about how horrible they think the job is. Or somebody will come and start talking negative about a neighbor or something. Most of the time I will be all quiet or refuse to gather with the negative talkers.

Answer #1

Because thats how wea ll are. I mean I think you yourself even have found yourself talking bad about other people. Even I have. Is just what we do. We see other people’s diffects, and the wrongs about them. But the thing is that we don’t see the wrongs about us before talking about someone else. You can stay away from it and everything, I mean sometimes is better to do that. But were all never perfect.

Answer #2

Some people talk about others because it makes them feel better about themselves. Others do it because of general boredom or just because they’re angry with the other person.

Is it right? No. Does everyone do it? Well, I haven’t met someone who truthfully never has. It just seems to be in human nature. If you don’t say something, you’ve surely thought about it. xD

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