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Why not me?
well theres this guy that goes to my school and I’ve developed an unexplanable attraction towards him…one problem:he has a girlfriend whom he really likes but who treats him like shit (and im not the only one that says that…his friends do to). He hardly sees her and she hardly ever smses him…his really committed to her though-wont cheat as far as I can tell! We friends right,but I want it to b more than that. We hang out on the weekends and we have a lot in common so why not? How do I make him re-think his relationship with her and see me as the better option? HELP!!! How do I go about
It’s really not easy to tell someone in love that he’s in the wrong relationship, you will loose him forever because love is blind. All you can do is watch and meanwhile stay in good relation with him, if he noticed you it’s fine and if not you should pass it out, no need to waste your time, at the end you will meet another guy and start a relation.
Hang out with him more and ask him how his relationship is going and if he says anything about it not going well ask why he puts up with her treating him badly and ask him why he doesnt think he deserves better than that
dear luvbytes, The best friend is one who’s there when u need him/her. Someday your friend will wake up and see how he’s being treated by this “other girl” whom he likes. When he does, be the friend he needs. Meanwhile, have fun and fish the ocean, not the mud puddle! Expand your horizons, and make lots of friends!
Well, that’s my advice… I hope things go well 4 u!
You cant, you have to respect his decision to be with her, all you can do is be his friend and be there for him. Maybe in time he will come to you for advice about her and you can tell him then that you dont think she is right for him becos he asked your opinion then so you can give it. But telling him you have feelings for him may scare him away right now becos he will feel like he is being obligated to make choices that he may not be ready for. So just take it slow and dont come on to strong.
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