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Why is it I see a lot of girls go after insincere guys

I don’t understand how some of the biggest a**holes and losers seem to have a better luck at picking up a girl than I. I don’t understand it. I’m looking for a sincere relationship, and it seems like I’m in a wasteland… Going to military school doesn’t help neither…

But seriously, I find this incredibly frustrating and irritating. I’m not a very social person, by I know I’m a much better guy than most of these guys girls are going after.

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Answer #1

I’m assuming that most of the women you are referring to are rather young. In many cases, by this I mean most, these young girls themselves are in fact quite insincere themselves. In many ways this is not a bad thing, it is merely healthy developmental behavior. It is not uncommon by any means for young girls to seek social growth or even advancement through romantic relationships with otherwise emotionally unapproachable or unreachable men. The girls don’t expect the relationship to last or to go anywhere, they are simply trying to learn from experiences, and often lack concern for personal values or abstract standards of purity. In short I will say that today’s youth are largely irresponsible and shortsighted. Perhaps it will reward you to bide your time until you find a girl as concerned for her future as you are. Social standards for sexual prowess are meaningless, a lifetime of genuine love; however, is paramount.

Answer #2

dude! Seddle down! Look, sometimes us girls are idiots. Let us work it out in our own time! I bet your awesome, but a great personality isn’t the only thing we look for!

Answer #3

Maybe because you like to correct people too much.:)

Answer #4

Turtles, you misspelled “settle”. Natie, “their” is possessive.

Answer #5

cause their hot

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