Why is it I can't attract anybody?

I am the only person in my school who has never had a boyfriend, and the only person in my school who does not currently have one.

I know who I am, and I’m working on my confidence. why am I not attractive to the opposite gender?

Who would wait their whole life for me, only to spend the remainder of it with me?

Will I ever fall in love?

Is there such thing as a soulmate?

Do I even have one?

Answer #1

When I was in school I only had one relationship aqnd didn’t last long anyway. Im still looking for someone now. Chances are that most people at school arn’t worth dating because of there values and little understanding of relationships that put them off. Most people you know that is in a relationship wouldn’t be for love more like respect your that they dont want to be lonley.

Answer #2

im like kinda the same, if your one of the only people in your school who doesn’t have a boyfriend then there arent that many lads left right? And why havent they got a girlfriend? ‘cause there probaly pathetic! Maybe you havent met him yet.. maybe he doesnt go to your school, try to meet more people, and keep working on your confidence, and like someone else said, take the the time to put on makeup everyday, and straighten your hair everyday, or just try a new style every so often til you find the perfect style where you look and feel amayzing :) dont worry babe, you’ll find him.. just a matter of where and when :)

and tbh would you prefer to have loads of short relationships, that leave you heart broken, or a few really special ones? and tbh, being heartbroken after a happy realtionship is better than being heartbroken after a shyt one.. goood luckk xx

Answer #3

well its not that your not attractive you may be the girl that never dates in school you may not date at all you have to give it time put makeup on strighten your hair do different hair styles if you don’t already I have only had one serious boyfriend and I was just me in middle school I am in 11th grade now and we still go out you will have a soul mate just give it time

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