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Why is it different with him.
Okay, so thiers this guy I am having sex with. Were friends, we’ve been together more than once in a serious relationship but things never seemed to work out. & I don’t have any “love” type of feelings for him. If anything I have feelings becuase we’ve had things for each other since 6th grade and im now in 9th. But anyways, when I have sex with him its not that same, I mean it may seem dumb but I don’t moan or nothing like that with him. &every other guy I’ve moaned and whtnot. But with this guy its completly different. Its not like hes not pleasing me, becuase trust me he is, its just hes even asked me to moan & I don’t want to fake it. If feels good but for some reason nothing comes out of my mouth >.< any reason why this could be ?
Well, sex is tricky. It’s not going to be the same with every partner. It’s perfectly normal to react differently to him than you do your other partners. It’s a different person! You shouldn’t feel pressured to make anything ‘normal’, because there is no normal definition to intercourse. It varies for everyone. An example would be, you can think of one person who you’d love to have wild sex with, and another you couldn’t imagine having wild sex with! Now you probably understand.
As for the other girls who have answered your question, don’t let them get to you. Sex is a personal descision and there is no right or wrong age to lose your virginity. It’s just a label people put on each other to make you feel out of place. It’s your body, and your descision, and none of these girls have the right to test you on it. What they’re saying is coming from their own personal opinions.
If you have any other questions, don’t hesitate to message me and ask, without being judged for your personal choices.
Hope this helps, Emma11
You are not being a slut. I think you are a bit too young to be having sex (16 is like the minimum best starting time if one is mentally ready). And I have to say to a certain extent, I think these boys may be using you for sex. Boys at your age are frankly morons and are goofing around. Even the older boys in high school are 99.9% morons. They are not mature. I think you need to calm down on the sex because it may end badly. (bad reputation, Sexually Transmitted Infection, HIV, pregnancy, etc.) You really should be focusing on other things like school and your friends. I think the reason you do not moan or make any sounds is because you feel awkward with him since it really isnt a true relationship. He is using you for sex. And thus there is no emotion while you two are doing it. Its almost like a job. Even if it feels good, sometimes it is not worth it, especially since sex is more than just feeling good.
If you need anymore advice, funmail me! -emma
moaning is a way of communication during sex, girls moan to show that it feels good, and also comes as part of a happy, loving relationship. people who have one-night-stands don’t usally experience any of that, the sex is usually just drunken, or for te sake of it. you don’t seem to be in a very loving relationship, so maybe the feelings are not there, so you cannot express yourself. maybe you loved ‘the other guys’ or maybe you faked it.
I do agree with the other people here, you are wayyy to young to be having sex, you are a child, sex is soemthing for when you are a bit older and right now you are obviously not ready for this kind of relationship. I’m not being horrible, but many bad things can come from having sex too young. I had a girl in my school year, and at 15 she was pregnant, giving her a very bad reputation, being called a slut etc. so you should watch yourself!
I wouldnt categorize you as being a “slut” necessarily, but I would as being easy!
well gee, thank you for putting me down. I don’t appreciate you judging me the way you just did, I asked for advice about me and someone NOt advice on how to live my life, did I say I screw everyone in my neighborhood and the next ? no -- so dont make it seem like I do, because I most certainly dont --
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