Why... *fallen out with best mate ;(* ?

Urhh well baiscally today me and my best mate ( for 3 years ) had a fight sorta .. Over something silly and all a long I was blaming it on her and now I realise it was kinda both of us.. I shudnt have reacted the way I did.. It was all because she says I wasnt joinin in this group thing when I was.. But now we aint talking shud I say sorry ? Or shud I just leave it because we always get into fights and most times she starts it because she can be the greatest mate ever then she can be really mean and horrible.. ? Shud I speak to her about it orr just stopp talking to her altogether because I don’t really know if I want friends that upset me ;(

Answer #1

I had this kind of problem, this girl I used to be best friends with would go in moods with me if I didn’t see her at breaks and we used to have arguments over stupid stuff like if I didn’t see her over the weekends and stuff. We used to do everything together, we ended up not talking for two years. We’re okay now, we dont see much of each other, but we dont hate each other either.

If I were you I’d say what you said here, tell her your sorry and she’ll probably apologise too. If she makes you upset then dont bother. I’m sure you’ll work it out.

Cara xx

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