Why dont fat guys get girls?

Why dont fat guys get girls cause im fat and I try to ask out girls but im scared cause im to fat I think they will make fun of me

Answer #1

I completely agree with the 2 above. I’m also a lil chubby, and yeah, it does lower self esteem. But yeah… You know what? Friends don’t care. For eg. If I ever sed I’m chubby, they say “no your not, its just cuddle” I say, that your should ask one of your friends out… Start lower.. Then build up the self esteem and try and meet some girls. Try to go for the girls that aren’t as thin that when they turn side on you can’t see them anymore. Try for the slightly chubbyer girls… Normally, they are the nicest girls, and all the girls in my school that aren’t very skinny, they have great personalitys, they’re pretty in their own ways. Anyway, good luck, and have fun meeting these girls buddy!

Answer #2

Hey friend all is not lost! My boyfriend’s pretty chubby but I think he is cute and fun in his own way. =) (he plays the guitar, bass, double bass etc and writes songs and I love to watch him play…he’s quite a geek [actuarial science student] but I find the geekiness cute too!) Yea so you’ll be able to find a girl that suits you no worries XD

Answer #3

try asking out the girls that are a little on the chubbier side, chances are they have the same fears, insecurities and desires to hook up as you do and will be a great way for you to be known as a good guy to go out with and be beneficial for both of you. and this will also keep you away from the skinny stuck up types.

Answer #4

Most girls are very shallow. All they see is a less disireable man because of the way he looks.. And believe it or not, it’s the same way most of the time vise-versa. I find it very stupid. Men and women should be interested in other people by their personality. Looks are just a plus. And I’m sorry you’re having some trouble in the relationship area buddy. And I hope something works out for you. =) Good luck! <3

Answer #5

I’m a girl, so I’ll tell you from a girl’s persepective.

A lot of the time, girls are superficial. Sometimes, they even think that their ‘reputation’ will be ruined if they are seen with there fat boyfriend. To make it short and sweet, girls can be just flat out b*tches. I hate it how there are so few girls who take the time to actually fall in love with the person and not the person’s body.

But that’s just what I think. Well, good luck getting the girl.

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