Why does she get mad when he talks to me?

ok so one of my friends likes this guy and it turns out the guy is a very good friend of mine. she told me not to talk to him because shes scared he’ll start to like me.but the problem is we’re too good of friends for me not to talk to him. I have no idea what to do. they’re both my friends and I dont wanna hurt either of them.

Answer #1

Sounds like she’s not very secure with either him, herself, or both. That kind of relationship never works. I would suggest that you tell her the you and him have been friends for longer and you have no intentions of taking him. If she still has a problem them its her problem. I have and never will restrict my wife from talking from someone and she would never do that to me. It part of having respect in a relationship. She doesn’t own him or visa versa. Ask why she feels so insecure about it and ask if she really wants to be in a relationship where she feels she can’t trust the other to remain faithful.

Answer #2

I don’t think she has the right to tell you not to talk to him. I wouldn’t try to get him to like you or flirt with him a lot, but if he is your friend, dont mess up that relationship. Chances are he doesn’t like her and if he did, you talking to him wouldn’t have an impact on that.

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