Why does no one get married before they have sex? Seriously!

I agree with you on why younge teens and kids are worring about sex, but as far as adults having sex before marriage, it does not mean you will sleep with everyone and anyone you come in contact with. Some people just have different beliefs and thoughts on the matter. And yes marriage is sacret and so is sex but marriage means a lot more than just sex. As far as God coming into the picture, ummm think about you say he made it for a married couple but adam and eve were NOT MARRIED. And marriage means a lot of different things. Back in time when God was around marriage didnt mean what it does today. Marriage now is a piece of paper thats it. But marriage is far more than that and back then there was no man to marry a man and a women. In my eyes marriage does not mean hvaing a big party wearing a white dress getting up in front of everyone and anouncing your love for somene and then signing a paper. It just lets everyone else no how you feel. And as far as a ring, how does jewlery sympolize love and marriage seriously some people are just so confused. Marriage is a bond between 2 people who love eachother and make eachother whole. I have been in a serious relationship now for 3 years and we consider ourselves married and weather anyone thinks differently thats there problem. We have no ring and have no paper and we didnt have a ceromony but we DID make a vow to eachother WITH eachother that we will remain faithful to one and other and respect one another just like a wedding. So honestly think about what marriage means and what God really ment by it because back then it wasnt like it is today. And marriage isnt just for a man and women either.