why does it always happen???

thomas…my friend for TWO years…was gonna ask me out but I was gone…so he asked the next person on his ‘list’ and when I found this out…well I dont know I was kinda jealous./…sooo I called him…and I told him…”I am gonnaa say something that might be a little disturbing, but once I say it you have to erase it so I dont feel emarrased after this…” of couse he said ok…”when I heard that you were going out with shandee”(the girl he asked out) “I got a little mad that you didnt say it to my face because were friends…and then I guess I got jealous a little bit…I really like you but I dont know…I would rather be friends but maybe not…I am so confuzzeled” and than when he told me I was full of joy…then he said that he was still gonna go out with shandee…I was so sad and humiliated…it is like everytime I am gone something happens…I was gone and tanner left I was gone and my friends faught I was gone and this happened…what do you think I should do about thomas.? should I wait…

Answer #1

If he can move on just like that he sounds a little desperate for a relationship, it wont last judging by the sounds of it. But rise above it is my advice, dont go crawling after him because your better then that, fair enough he might be your friend and all but keep it that way is my opinion :)

Answer #2

Just stay friends with him I’d say. The most you can do is just be a good friend and be there for him, because one day he might just break up with his current girlfriend and go after you. :)

Answer #3

yEAH YOU SHOULD WAIT,,, YOU LET YOUR FEELINGS OUT AND KNOW HE NOWS HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT EM .. AND SINCE HE ALREADY ASKED OUT THIS GIRL HE MIGHT FEEL BAD BREAKING UP WITH HER AND GOING OUT WITH YOU.. SO JUST WAIT I THINK HE LIKES YOU TO.. :)

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