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Why does he ignore me?

I recently started new a job. I met one of the managers who is from the same city as me. On that day I met him he started to tell me about some of his personal problems and I gave him advice. But, I’ve started to realise that he ignores me -in a very obvious way- in front of my or his colleagues and will only say hello and start conversation if we are alone or he knows no one will hear him. He is very confident person but when we are alone (which is not often) he is more serious. I tried ignoring him but gave up and tried to talk to him or say hello but noticed he will put his head down and not even look at me. He will sometimes start conversation with my whole team and exclude me. What is wrong with him?

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HE has feelings for you !!! is the first thing that comes into mind. when he looks at you does it seem more intimate? when he has conersations with you in private is it for the most little reasons at all??? was it something he could have asked anyone else or could have sayed in front of people. does he look for any excuse to bump into you or touch you>>?? BUT was it the stuff he told you about his life very serious problems?? maybe he feels emberassed over telling you such personal things . for he is your coworker and he likes to appear self confident and without care. He doesnt want the other team members to know that he even has ISSUES. maybe the whole reason he avoids looking at you is because YOU KNOW he has a vulnerable side to him. IT CAN BE EITHER OR. I don’t know how you feel about him for you didnt clarify if you did have any sort of feelings for him also. so I can only tell you to try talking to him about how you feel ignored in the meetings by him. and that you would expect him of all people to give you the same respect as the other team members.

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