Why do I get so jealous?

A foolish woman looks after her man and a clever one looks after herself(c)Seneca:)

dont be unless you chatch him ok dont waste a good thing if you love him

You seem to be having trust issues… Yes its a trust issue. Your fearful that your boyfriend is going to run off with one of these girls and do something with them. Thats not how its like, unless you can find proof of that you don’t have much of a reason to think like that. Everyone has doubts sometimes but its best to find evidence that ensures you that this doubt is true. Don’t go eavesdropping on him, thats not cool and thats just invading privacy and coming off as you not trusting him which we already established but hold onto your doubts. If you do eavesdrop on him and find out that he didn’t cheat on you and he finds out that you were doing this then thats going to cause some serious damage to the relationship.

Accept it like he is accepting you talking to other guys. You need to work this out together, trust issues can’t be solved by one person only. Have a talk with your boyfriend and tell him that your scared that he might pick one of the other girls over you, he’ll surely try to tell you otherwise. An important aspect of a relationship is communication. Your having trust problems, the last thing you want is communication problems.

If you want to try and work it out alone, try to grasp the feeling of why its wrong for you. Hes letting you talk to other guys but when he talks to other girls its a problem. Work on that, its not fair to the slightest bit. Remember, its a relationship that needs a balance of effort to maintain and keep stable.

Hope this helps.