Why do I feel betrayed?

my boyfriend and best friend have class together… they talk about me all the time and it bothers me… but I always have to find out onmy own… he is controlling and I am getting sick of it… what the hell?

Answer #1

okay, if he is so controlling then you have the right to be controlling to.. talk to your friend befor your boyfriend.. most of the time they are more understand. & I feel your pain.. im the same way.

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Answer #2

Thats what young teen boys do…they talk about the things they do with their girlfriends. You are very young…too young to be in a relationship, let alone a controlling one. We teach people how to treat us, and if your going to allow him to keep disrespecting you, then he is going to continue to do so! Let him know, that you are your own person, with your own feelings, and you’d appreciate it if he would show you some respect.

Answer #3

Sounds like your best friend has her own agenda. If they were a true friend they wouldn’t be talking about you behind your back and not telling you what is going on. I think your friend wants your guy unless the guy is best friends with the girl too. If so, end it now. As for the controlling part, maybe your friend is putting thoughts in his head and he’s acting on them.

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