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Why do I always stop him before he undoes my pants?

Alrightyy, well, I’m 15 years old, and I have a new boyfriend. We’ve been dating for about a month now and we’ve made out numerous times. I want to go farther, But I’m too nervous! I’ve been fingered and given bj’s and whatnot to other guys before but for some reason with him I always stop him when he tries to put his hands in my pants or my hands in his. I WANT to do it and all, so, Whats up with that?

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Answer #1

Hello there Sweetheart my name is Stephanie AKA Emo Elmo :D

Well as everyone else has said its probably because you like him a lot and you dont want to move to fast because your scared you might lose him… I’ve done that and im tellin you now you dont want to do that because when you move to fast it really really hurts when yo you break up :(… anywho just wait till and him are BOTH ready :D

hope I helped out a lil well message me if you want let me know how things turn out sweetheart if you want lol :D

With Love MMFWCL Stephanie AKA Emo Elmo

Answer #2

Maybe it’s because you really like him.. or it’s just too early to give all of those things to him cause you’ve only gone out for a month.

Answer #3

I don’t know why you’re doing it, but it is a good thing!! you’ve only been dating this guy for one month. I reakon you should wait a little more to see if he really likes you and if it’s really worth it, or if he’s just after your body and doesn’t realy care about u.. waiting can be a good thing, don’t stress too much mate

Answer #4

Your only 15. Who cares.

Answer #5

well you like him to much to just to do this type of thing right now but soon you will be ready. trust me I been their

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