Why are people not cool, are cool?

I really don’t get where you are going with this but I’m sure you’re a bit jealous of her. Maybe she isn’t as cool as you make her out to be, she could just be an average girl. The best thing you can try is to be yourself and be friendly with people. I know this can be challenging because you’re introverted but when you’re trying to make a friend, ask yourself this question, ‘’What do I have to lose?’’ I do this and it helps me a lot, no kidding :)

I seem to think that you go by first impressions, these aren’t really good to cling onto. People can be really different from their impression that they give to you. I’m saying this because you think that girl is ‘’cool’’ while you haven’t actually met her. It’s nice to have positive first impressions about people so that way it easier to make friends, just shy away from the bad impressions. If you think someone is particularly bad, try and see if they really are what you think they are. Don’t ever to cling to impressions and hearsay, stay away from these, they’re counter-productive.

All you need to do is be yourself and be nice to people. I’m sure a lot of people won’t turn down a nice person, I certainly wouldn’t! Now being ‘’cooler’’ shouldn’t be your goal, it’s a waste of time. Simply because you spend more time trying to be ‘’cool’’ instead of being faithful with your friends. Like the above mentioned, you don’t need to be cool, you just need friends you can trust, That’s really it :)

Good luck…