Why are my friends so sad about it all?

O.k. Well its like we are like 4 bestfriends (I have a lot more friends at school) and well o.k. One of my bestfriends hilary likes are bestfriend but kevin told her that he is sorry but he doesn’t like her back and kevin likes are bestfriend but daphne told him that she doesn’t like him and no one told me that hilary and kevin stopped eating and all and was going to die because hilary and kevin cant move on with there live just because of loveing someone and I dont know if you know what im talking about but I know help my bestfriend are killing them selfs and I dont know what to do to stop it I dont what 2 be 4 bestfriends and tomorrow no bestfriends help please I really need help I have no one to go to… :(

Answer #1

Hi- I’ve learned to deal with things by taking a few deep breaths and letting things iron themselves out. Sometimes we have just got to let ourselves have time to really think things out. I know this doesn’t help much. Hope it makes sense somehow.

Answer #2

IT’S NOT HEALTHY TO LET BEST FRIENDS GO BUT IF I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN IS TO BE VERY CAREFUL NOT TO HURT FRIENDS THAT LOVE YOU BECAUSE THERES a lot OF friends OUT THERE FOR EVERYONE. I HOPE THAT IS WHAT YOU MEANT.

Answer #3

First of all people can fast for a long time and so not eatting for a while is not going to kill some one. It is good if they drink a lot though if not then you will get weak and tired fast and that can cause issues but you can not eat and be safe about it really. So no worry on the dieing part plus I am sure that they will eat soon…most kids have a hard time fasting.

Alright now as far as everything is going I think that you guys should sit down and talk this all out communication is key to any type of a relationship from Friednship at home with your parents to marriage ( I am married and so I no)

No reason to really lose friends over the hole thing plus you can be friends with some wether your other friends like to or not no one can tell you who you can be friends with and who you can’t be friends with.

PEACE

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