Why am I so scared to have an orgasm during masturbation?

I’m scared to because if I do I might cum or moan and scream while I mastrubate! I’m 13 and I’m just starting to mastrubate it feels so good! I read some things on here and on other websites about mastrubating stories and I get so horny I shake! I run to the bathroom start fingering myself and I almost have an orgasim but I stop cause I’m scared someone would hear me or I have to clean up my cum! I do it in my bedroom but the same thing I’m scared of! Eitheir one of my family members is up at all times! I don’t know what to do I’m never alone by myself because my 4 year old brother I have to babysit and if I do that then well… awkward! So please help me some how to try to have an orgasim!! I really want one but my fears!

Answer #1

umm I am 13 and I have been masterbating for a week now and I am a little embaresed but am over that now ans I make no noise when I have an orgasm

Answer #2

I hear you I just started today im 13 too and it feels so good but im scared of someone hearing my or if I hvae an orgasim on my bed soo I hear you its scary but I feel soo good :)

Answer #3

when your runnung a bath or something or going into the shower take some music in with you and then masterbate. girls dont come that much so there isnt much to clean up not all girls scream most girls fake the intensity of the orgasm . if your still scared then put a bit of a towel in your mouth to block the noise

Answer #4

thank you everyone so MUCH!!! I had one and nothing happend except I spazed out a little bit ahaha!! but it feels soo good and AWESOME!!! well I think I had one cause it felt really bad at first and a few seconds later ahh… I felt so calm!! I just fingered myslef ahhh… just find a good spot near your clit and under it I had one in seconds!!! :) I didn’t moan or cum just heavy breathing and I spazed out with my legs ahaha :)

Answer #5

what you could do is that when most of your family members is to go to bed and when you hear no noice you could start dooing your need and dont forget to cover your mouth with your pillow. im not agirl but from what I no is that the girls have the best feeling in orgasms and enjoy what you can do if it helps u, could watch some pornnn and see how they masterbate.

Answer #6

First of all, you need to understand that masturbating is something that every girl has tried or will try at one point in their lives, it is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about. Unlike men, females to not produce sperm when they orgasm, so you do not have to worry about having to clean anything up. Also, most women make no sound when they orgasm, it is highly exaggerated that they do in porn. They best thing for you to do is to try again when you are taking a shower or bath, or any place within your house where you can have privacy. Do not be scared to experience it, it is a narutal thing for a girl of your age to be doing, so do not be concerned about it.

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