Who to get her to realize that I love her

Wow…slow down dude. She’s not even your girlfriend and you say you love her?

Your first homework assignment is to find out if she’s with your friend.

If she is (and I am a woman, so bear with me), stay away. Even if they break up…at least in woman law, that’s taboo to date a friends’ ex. If he is your friend, you won’t date her.

That being said, the answer to your question: before she realizes you ‘love’ (and I’m using that term loosely here) her, you have to show her you care. Ask her on a date. If you’re not comfortable with straight up asking, find out what movies/music/whatever she likes and invite her to go to something. Say she really really likes 50 Cent. Find out when he’s going to be in your area and tell her you have an extra ticket if she wants to go. Then high-tail it over to the ticket box and buy 2 tickets. (That way if she says no, you’re not out the dough).

Don’t bring up the ‘l’ word too soon. Women don’t like that. Date for awhile and see where it goes. If you treat her right and with respect, she’ll see how great a guy you are. But also note: Love has to be a two-way street. If she doesn’t love you back, you’re wasting your time.