Who: If I ask a guy to hang out, will I sound desparate?

It won’t sound desperate at all, you will look desperate if you trow yourself at hi while he’s at your house. So if you do like him , ask him to hang out and talk about general things, make him enjoy being with you, and the next date he will be the one to ask you.

It’s not going to sound desperate if you don’t make it sound that way. Just text him and say something like You: “Hey” Him: “Hey what’s up” You: Oh nothing, just hanging out at my house…you want to come chill for a little while?” Him: “Sure, call when I am close”. That easy…it’s not the old days where it’s important to court your girl first so some guys like to be chased too!

You won’t sound desperate because he already asked to hang out..

It won’t sound desperate, go for it!

guys like being asked out they dont want to always be the one asking!