When I have sex with my girlfriend whats the best way to stay hard?

Well at your age there should be no need for drugs! So I agree with thatonechick, you might be rushing into things, getting nervous and not concentrating, instead of taking your time and just going with the flow. First things first, make sure you aren’t taking anything that could make it go soft. This means avoid trying to have sex while drunk or on any kind of drugs. Cigarettes and Caffeine can also have a negative effect. This could affect your performance. Also, if you masturbate a lot or have sex a lot then you might have more difficulty getting it up. So, take a break if this is the case. Next, if you don’t masturbate, then start it’s a great way to learn about how your body works and what makes you feel good. It’s helps when you need to get hard fast (I.e: masturbate with your girlfriend while making out) or when you want some help getting hard (I.e.: show her what you like) Last but not least, if you get soft don’t worry about it! If you start freaking out about it, you’ll just make things worse. You’ll lose your focus and start getting nervous for no reason. Take your time, kiss her more, lick her more, ask her to touch you more…just enjoy it and don’t worry about it because sooner or later…it will be just perfect.