What do I do when communication doesn't work?

My husband has a low sex drive. We have talked about it and he always promises to do something about it but he never does! I don’t think he’s cheating on me. I don’t want to bring up the issue too often as I’m afraid it will hurt he’s ego! What can I do?

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Answer #1

I have the exact same problem as you. And I have found there is NOTHING you can do besides what you’ve already done.

I walk around naked, try all kinds of moves on him(avid reader of cosmo), do all sorts of “sexy” things and bam nothing happens.

It’s just that he has a low libido and you have a higher libido and it won’t change unless you can convince him to see a doctor. Normal 20 - something husbands should want sex MORE than 2 times a month.

Answer #2

I’d sit him down and try to find out what both of you can do. Find out what really turns him on! Maybe he has some deeply harbored fantasy that he might like to try that you would be okay doing. Maybe he’d like you to do role-reversal or role-playing! You should have a heart to heart talk about what really turns you on. It could also be that if he masturbates a lot that this could be taking away his libido to have sex with you.

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