When a men cums does that mean he has definately orgasmed?

orgasm is when both body and mind reach their climax.ejaculation is climax of body. lets say I am having sex with the women of my drems.I like her smooth body want to feel her satisfied like her moanings and wriggling with escatcy and am content that I am able to reach her to the seventh heaven.now in this feeling when I ejaculate it will be orgasm. ok,next I pick up a blind date,on phone had lots of phone sex.fix a room and there she comes.she turns out to be a sh*t ,messy and a crap.but just to keep my word I’ll have to fcuk her.on the contrary for her I am a greek love god ,shes bursting lust,rubbing licking ,my body,suckin my dick and forcing me to have it done to her. in this case I have no emotions a hopeless sex,but since rubbing and sucking have erected my dick and inserting have braught me to cumm,I;ll be forced to ejaculate, here ill be ejaculating and not having orgasm hope it served the purpose :-)