What to do I love her but am a BIG FLIRT?

Yes, it IS selfish…

You said that you HAVE FEELINGS for the other girl. That goes beyond just flirting. And if you truly love your girlfriend as much as your claim, then you wouldn’t be so disrespectful to her, by involving yourself with this other girl.

o got the same situation..but ima girl..so honestly ever guy flirts with gurls even tho he has one..it’s wrong but they do it anyways..so it’s not that big of a deal I think lots of girls actually expect it..but don’t leave your gurlfren..or cheat on her. just stay away from the other girl for a while ya no avoid her and try to get closer to your girl..than you guys ull be close and you won’t really care about the other girl…HOPE I HELPD!!!

selfish im not being I honestly cant see myslef leaving my girlfriend I live her too much I want advice on if anyone has been in a similar situation and how they dealt with it and if the think flirting isnt that bigger deal

I really love her but cant help my feeling for this other girl

Your being selfish… period. So instead of making excuses, just PICK ONE and get it over with.

You can love as many people as you want – what’s important is who you promised yourself to.