Is he using me?

About 8 months ago, this guy told me he likes me. At that time he had a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend. We started hanging out, as close friends, nothing sexual. He always tried but I rejected, as felt it was wrong for both of us. In the end, I started liking him more each day. And about a month ago, we had sex. I couldnt bear the guilt and broke up with my boyfriend. Then we’ve had sex a few times again. And we’re really close friends, he tells me everything and says Im the only one who understands him. I’m really falling for this guy. He always tells me he likes me so much, and wishes he met me before. I never ask him about his girlfriend, so not sure how is their relationship. Is he using me? Am I wrong for having hopes he would break up with her and start something serious with me? I wanted to give him an ultimatum, either me or her. But I’m afraid he will choose her and it will break my heart.

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hearts are meant to be broken, you will have to force him to make a choice now or later, why not now? So the pain is shorter regardless of his decision.

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