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What to do about my boyfriend not trusting me?

What can you do if my boyfriend does not even trust me to go with my family for vacations?! I love him and I know that I am not going to do nothing to harm him but he does not believe me! At times we are good but sometimes it gets hard because he is constantley fighting and telling me that im going to do something bad! Help!

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Answer #1

your boyfriend sounds pretty insecure and a bit on the controlling side. Maybe hes accusing you cause hes doing it himself. I think you should sit down and talk to him straight up about how you feel about him and that if he continues to accuse you of things and start unecessary arguments/fights then you will have to take action in your relationship. Tell him its hurting your feelings and its adding stress that doesnt need to be there. If I were u, I would definately leave him alone. Love hurts and its even harder to let go of someone that you love so much but if the person you love is trying to control you in some way or accuse you of things that arent even happening and doesnt trust u, then you should really question their intentions and urs. All good relationships are based on trust and respect and communication. If you dont have all 3, then your sure to have issues. Live your life and dont hold back from your family or friends ever…funmail me if you like tc and good luck! :)

Answer #2

well he has a confidence problem. you have your own life and cant let him control it but you may have to find out some past events he went through like other girls cheating ect. and reassure him you wont do anything. hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~

Answer #3

he sounds possessive and controlling. without trust there can be no relationship. remind him of this. if it doesnt get better maybe you’re better off without him.

Answer #4

He has a problem if he doesn’t even trust you with your family. I bet he doesn’t trust your friends either. He may be trying to isolate you from them. Guys who are controlling do that so you can’t talk to other people. That is not good. You need your family and should see them as often as you want.

He has trust issues and control issues, for whatever reason. He should get professional help because it will only get worse and if he doesn’t want to get help, you have to ask yourself if it’s worth it.

You say that he’s constantly fighting too. You don’t have to tolerate that and you shouldn’t. If he is doing that, I say ‘Get the Hell out of there’.

As they say ‘There are plenty more fish in the sea’.

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