What should I say to get him to stay?

My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. We tend to argues a lot, but when we get along we REALLY get along. I love being with him. He makes me so happy, but when we fight I feel like he doesn’t care about me because he says some pretty mean and nasty things. He has had a problem with trusting me for a while now. And, I can't lie, I do somethings he has asked me not to do (ex: he doesn't want me to talk to boys, but at work there are men and we do converse). About two days ago he found out that I lied about some where I went with one of my friends (it was a female). Even though it was small he said that he didn’t know if we could be together anymore. I have told him like 20 times that I would never lie to him again, and this time he doesn’t want to hear it anymore. But there is a difference in my promising not to lie now, I realizw that I cannot be without him. I love him entirely too much to lose him over a stupid lie. I swear I want to be honest with him. But he doesn’t know if he wants to go back out with me again. What can I say to make things better and convince him that I am serious this time?

Become an Expert →

Answer #1

It is hard when you care that much about someone to see the "forest from the trees" as the cliche' goes… You lied because he would not understand or want the truth that you are not a pet, but a human and can talk to anyone you choose. If someone tells you not to speak to ???_(Fill in the blank with any group that you want) they are insecure and controlling, right? and you would not want them as a friend? Because it is your boyfriend you cease believing in your right to free will? Normal social behavior? Be glad you only dated a year. To answer your request - you should say to him "thank you" for showing me that I want to be with someone who can handle the truth.

Answer #2

say ur pregnant

More Like This

What can I say I have to get him back help me - 2 Answers
What can I wright him what can I say I have to get him back help me
What is some freaky things I say to get a guy on hard? - 1 Answers
Im black and I need some freaky stuff I can say to this guy to put him on hard.what can I say to put this guy on hard? I need...
How do you get a guy to stay intested in you? - 1 Answers
Errrm, Just woundering really lol any suggestionns? But the guy lives in a different city not too far away
Says he wants to stay friends - doesn't act it - 1 Answers
I dated my ex for 9 months. Great relationship until he started to drift away. I felt neglected and broke it off. He begge...
What should I do should I get head tonight or stay home? - 3 Answers
What should I do should I get head tonight or stay home I was working all this week and im tired as hell but I want to get m...
Why did she say I didn't have to get her the present? - 4 Answers
I got this girl a present for her birthday but she asked for it with hints and stuff and when I actually got it for her she w...
heard the saying a guy walks up to you and say's what ? - 1 Answers
Anyone out there who have heard the saying a guy walks up to you and say's what don't I have and you say my heart.
How to tell him I don't want him to stay? - 3 Answers
Ok now hes on his way over and says I can give him an answer when he gets here...I say why do you want to spend the night?......
What does it mean when a girl says lets get physical? - 1 Answers
I was txting this girl and was tellling her how I wished I could be there physically for her and not just in a talking matter...
How to get him to stay with me? - 2 Answers
I met this lad who asked me out when e wa drunk,I ended up sleepin with im that nite I no its wrong!!! but anyway I gave im m...

What should I say to get him to stay?

Love & Relationships

Get Over a Breakup

प्रेम वशीकरण विशेषज्ञ ऑनलाइन प्रेम मुफ्त...

Be a Blushing Bride

TheMatchmakers

Online Love Problem Solution ...