Should I try to give it another shot with him?

ok well about a month & a half ago these 3 guys came to my team’s basketball practice & the next day he & I exchanged numbers (through friends b/c we’re both kinda shy) & we started talking..things were going fine..we liked each other (we had told each other so it wasn’t just a guessing kind of thing) but then about 2 weeks ago we went to the movies together & the entire time (as I heard later) my friend & his friend were trying to get him (ben) to hold my hand..but he was really nervous lol so his friend got up & like put our hands together..so then that week ben texted me one morning & said that he needed to talk to me about something kind of important and he said that he couldn’t ask me out..I mean it seemed like we were probably going to go out..it was almost expected I guess..but he said that something was “missing” & that the movies made him realize that..he said that he stayed up all night thinking about it & that he talked to his friends about it & decided that he didn’t like me..so I’m not sure if he never liked me, if he did & then stopped, or if he thought he did but didn’t. anyways, I was really upset & we still talk a lot..I still like him & he’s trying to “talk” to one of my friends that he already knew..but she doesn’t like him..I don’t know but I just really think that he’s a great guy for me & that we would be really good for each other..& I think that we should give it another shot..

what should I do? *srry it was so long by the way

Answer #1

If he says he doesn’t like you hunni then he probably means that he doesn’t like you. Just try to get over him, and if this means you have to stop talking to him then do this. Just go out and find another man but if you are keeping in contact with this guy and still like him you or over guys out there haven’t got a chance! Good luck hunni! x

Answer #2

You need to accept the fact that you werent his type. YOU think that hes a really great guy for you, and YOU think that you;d be really good for each other. The thing is hun>its not all about YOU! He obviously doesnt feel the same way. Just keep your head up, and dont let one let down get to you. Its going to happen alot, where you fall for someone, but they just dont feel the same about you. Its not your fault..it just wasnt meant to be thats all!

Answer #3

well face it this way mate. the whole “somthing is missing thing” means that he wasnt that much interested in you. if he wants to see another girl then the best thing you can do is let him go. i knokw you like him but maybe letting him go will let you see how much he really cares for you. if he doesnt want to go out wit you then trying again will only make it..worse in a way. why not try to calm down look for aonthier guy and see how things go there. i mean it seems like this is your first relationship and the whole fact of being scared to hold hands is..normal but maybe loosening up a bit and let your emotions guide you someway and once you think you are calm enough for a mate try again. but for now you should “practice”

Answer #4

There’s nothing you can really do her, hun. Hold your head up high and move along.

Sometimes we think we may be interested in getting to know someone but then as we do, we realize, ehh, we’re really not that into him/her. We all have to play both sides of this at some point and right now it’s your turn to be on the bum end of the deal.

No biggie, just move on and tell him you enjoyed getting to know him.

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