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Should I try to give it another shot with him?

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ok well about a month & a half ago these 3 guys came to my team's basketball practice & the next day he & I exchanged numbers (through friends b/c we're both kinda shy) & we started talking..things were going fine..we liked each other (we had told each other so it wasn't just a guessing kind of thing) but then about 2 weeks ago we went to the movies together & the entire time (as I heard later) my friend & his friend were trying to get him (ben) to hold my hand..but he was really nervous lol so his friend got up & like put our hands together..so then that week ben texted me one morning & said that he needed to talk to me about something kind of important and he said that he couldn't ask me out..I mean it seemed like we were probably going to go out..it was almost expected I guess..but he said that something was "missing" & that the movies made him realize that..he said that he stayed up all night thinking about it & that he talked to his friends about it & decided that he didn't like me..so I'm not sure if he never liked me, if he did & then stopped, or if he thought he did but didn't. anyways, I was really upset & we still talk a lot..I still like him & he's trying to "talk" to one of my friends that he already knew..but she doesn't like him..I don't know but I just really think that he's a great guy for me & that we would be really good for each other..& I think that we should give it another shot..

what should I do? *srry it was so long by the way