What should I do if Im not ready to committ?

I have been dating a girl for 9 months who has 2 kids that are not mine. I told her I needed time to think about our commitment. Would it be wrong if I went out on a date with a girl to test the waters to see if I really love her. I dont want to hurt the kids or her.

Answer #1

Oooh tricky situation there. I would have said yes, but, in theory if you don’t tell her it’s cheating? Well, I guess my advice to you is that if you has to question it, then the balance may be tipped toward not sticking with her. Do you truly love this woman? Do you love her kids? Do you want to raise them because you will be their new daddy? You will be making a big decision, be careful. Best wishes!

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