What should I do if I found pot in my sister's backpack?

I found pot in my 19 year old sister’s backpack. I’ve know she smoked for a while now, but never really had any hard evidence. I’ve been trying to hint to my mom that she smokes, but she doesn’t believe me. I mean, its not like I want her to get in trouble, its just that we haven’t really had the most trusting relationship so far. Im 13 by the way. And I just don’t want her to end up like some of her friends. In high school, she always made good grades and never did anything like this. My dad would never even think for a second that their perfect little angel child would ever do such a thing, so I’m not looking to convince him. I want to find a way to approach her about it, but I’m pretty sure she would accuse me of snooping through her stuff and such. I don’t know what to do or if I should tell any one. And I don’t want some crap about, “oh, pot isn’t bad for you and you should just not care” cause I do and I know smoking that crap is wrong. I really need some help here. Please help.

Answer #1

Why would you even bring your mom into this? She will be very upset so telling her is a big NO. Your sister is 19 and whether or not you like it she will continue to do what she wants. If you are concerned just tell her and be honest.

Answer #2

leave it, ignorance is bliss and if your mum/dad finds it then you wont be a snitch.

Answer #3

You should’ntt telL your mom just tell her you dont want her to end up like that and that its her disicion, she’sz 19 she knows the conssequences .She’ll do it behind her mom’sz back if you telL her mom so that wont helP

Answer #4

well…say to her im sorry to bring this up but I found pot in your bag I know I shodn t have been in there but please stop if she doesn t now she may get addicted hope this helps xx

Answer #5

This isn’t really your business. Maybe tell your sister that you’re concerned about her decisions, but because she’s 19, there isn’t any point in telling your parents.

Answer #6

you should talk to your sister tell her that smoking is bad for her and she will proberly die from it . It is her desision there is realy nothing you can do about it I wouldn’t tell your pearnts until your shour she won’t stop then tell them that you think you sister is acting strange sometimes and you think there is something going on (maybe just leave the pot some were your perants will find it with some of you sister stuff)

Answer #7

maybe tell her first… tell her that you had to move her bag to get somthing and that it was open and the pot fell out, that way she won’t acuse you of snooping, and if she then knows you know then you can talk about it.. and figure out what to do, and if you talk then you should tell her how you feel about it, because from what you said in youtrquestion you sound conserned and a little worried for your sisters health and wellbeing, you should do what feels right. hope I helped. andy

Answer #8

leave your mom out of it, shes 19, and youre only going to cause the two to fight. you could talk to her about it, but im sure it wont make her stop. if you talk to her about it you might feel better, and it could help your relationship, as long as you dont attack her about it… pot’s a drug, but it’s not going to f*k her up that much, she could be doing much worse things, things that would surely kill her. this is not one of them. I know you probably wont understand that, but trust me.

stoners can succeed too.

Answer #9

show her the pot you found in there. Or like keep it in there, & search in front of your mom & show her?

Answer #10

I’d leave her alone, she 19 almost a adult. (in canada thats considered a adult) I would talk to her about it but thats about it.

Even if you tell your mom so that she will stop she’s only going to rebel and still do it.

Answer #11

keep,it a secret [: pot isn’t that bad dude,just chilll,maybee you need to smoke some just to relax [:

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