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What should I do breakup with him or not?

The last 3 days things have been soo bad he texted me 3 days ago that he was gonna go stay with his mom because him and his brothers live together and their was a huge fight I’ve yet to meet his brothers and weve been dating about a year and a half. I texted his brother to make sure he was ok because his moms house is out of service range and he said he never knew his brother even had a girlfriend I was soo hurt and sad that hed been denying me a whole year and a half when I asked him about it he said he has a personal life that he doesnt need to tell his family about I feel so stupid right now and im still in shock its hard to let go of a guy I’ve been with for over a year what should I do?

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What should I do breakup with him or not?

Answer #1

There is no need to break up with him, I never tell my family too many questions, buy atleast they havent though you was another girl, its not like he has told them he has a diffferent girlfriend :) x

Answer #2

A guy is never worth being hurt your life untill you are married or have children should be about you and if he denies you he is ashamed to call you his girl.

Answer #3

Maybe he has problems at home, and so he felt that telling his family would not change how he felt about you. Of course there are many ways to look at this, like in a way he could’ve not cared enough to ever have mentioned you. You decide whether or not you want to stay with a guy like this, but if you really want to finalize your decision you should ask him about why he kept you secret. Threaten staying together, if you feel that it’s that important.

Answer #4

thanks for your answers they helped me think about things from his and my perspective.

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