What should I do about this guy?

What exactly is your motive with this guy?

Here’s what’s probably going through his head. It sounds as though he’s understandably uncomfortable with being with you for the possible legal and social consequences. What will people think of a 21 year old guy who’s with a 14 year old girl? Will his friends/peers judge him? Or could he ever be pressed charges for having sex with a minor (you)?

So it sounds like an exclusive relationship with you doesn’t interest him. So if you are looking to make him your boyfriend he’ll most likely reject you. And try to understand why, his situation is understandable. You can’t fuck him until he forgets your age (unfortunately lol).

So you used your “sex appeal to seduce him”. You go girl! You get what you want! You sound very confident in your sexuality for your age, and a lot of guys are really turned on by a girl that can intiate sex and get what she wants. So if all you’re looking for is to have fun/secret fuck sessions with this guy, then it sounds like you have taken what’s yours already and I hope the best for you! good luck

Unfortunately he is right if he thinks so, you are not him.

well, at least hes smart because there is a problem with the age difference and you using your sex appeal to seduce him doesnt help because you are under the legal age of consent, and he is over it he can be charged with rape and/or phedophilia and sent to jail if the relationship between you two gets sexual (oral, sex, ect) so he can be sent to jail, wether YOU agree to having oral, sex ect makes no difference because you are not legal if you want to be with him in a sexual relationship, at least try to wait untill your legally allowed to have sex so he doesnt go to jail