What should I do if my crush is dating my best friend?

I like this guy named Devan and he is going out with my best friend and iam dieing inside… and my other friends are getting madd at mee because I like him and I just cant let him go… its sooo hardd and I feel like a btch and my parents are divorcing and my life is fcked upp… I dont know where to go and waht to say but suicide always coems to mind

Answer #1

It’s your life. You can choose to be happy… or you can act like a victim and feel unnecessarily miserable.

My mom is a wise one. When a friend of mine thought about committing suicide, she gave him a knife. So you see, that option is available as well. It’s your life - do what you want with it.

Answer #2

How can you let go of something you dont have? There are tons of guys out there. Learning that we cant always have what we want is a part of growing up. Not everyone you like is going to return the feelings. As hard as its going to be, you just have to accept it, and move on. One day you will find someone who will return your love!

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