What should I do about my brother?

ok.. my cuzin told me that she saw a pic of my bro makin out wit a guy.. and I have people cumin up to me asking me if my brother is gay.. I really dont want him to be gay because I want him to have everlasting life wit god when he dies and I dont think my parents know,, should I tell them.. I also dont know if I should confront him about it.. what should I do??

Answer #1

uummm there a cuple things being gay dosent mean anything and god made us this way well if your bro is me and your bro and really you would be mad if he was thats messed up bbbuyuuttt ask him he will get mad I did befor I cameout but dont be mad theres nothing wrong with it

Answer #2

Dont tell your parents, you should have a bond with him not to tattle on him. Let the boy be free. If you want to, ask, but dont expect an answer.

Answer #3

if he is gay there is nothing wrong with that im bisexual im happy and completely myself but he might not be it may just have been a laugh all you can do is ask him mention the picture but dont tell your parents let him do that in his own time if he is ok thats all you can do and also dont try to change his mind

Answer #4

I have two gay friends and two or so bi. The gays haven’t told their parents yet, but are very comfortable with telling their friends. The bis I’m not sure about. But I know about them so yeah… Anyway, what I’m saying is, if he feels comfortable with telling you things, he will. If you’re not comfortable with confronting him, you don’t have to. If you’re on friendly terms, he may be okay to speak to you about it.

Answer #5

I dont believe in god

Answer #6

Try to be understanding no matter what. The last thing you want is to make your brother hate you. My brother is bi and I completely accept him, he is the same person as always on the inside and that is all that matters. I am christian as well but I also believe that a person is a person and you should treat them as you would want to be treated and just pray for them. It’s the only thing you can really do with any certinaty.

Answer #7

Ask your brother if he is, depending on how cool your brother is, he might get mad, he may not. And if he’s as religious as you seem to be, he’ll talk to you or someone about it. But to be honest, god made people imperfect. He can’t be mad at something he created. See what I mean? If he believes in the right things (aside from sexual orientation) he shall be fine. trust me. any more questions about this?

Answer #8

I think you should ask him.. but don’t tell your parents unless its ok with him if its true!

Answer #9

ask him

Answer #10

why should you have to do anything?? let him deal with it.. worry about it later if it gets any worse

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