Does he still love me?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year now, Things were going so well, he always used to want to see me and spend time with me, He always used to say I love you, He used to be so sweet and kind. Recently he hardly wants to see me, he wants to be out with his mates or playing football or staying his sisters place, and I find myself asking him “will I see you today” and I’m always the person to say “ I love you”. I’ve found his attitude has changed and his temper, when I ask him about things he just says everything’s fine. What should I do? I really love him and want to make things work.

Answer #1

You can also find a good company for yourself, and when your b/f does not want to spend his time with you, you may go out with this company. You should be able to enjoy your time without him, too. And do make a decision on that you will tell him “I love you” the same times than you hear it from him. If he notices this change in your behavior and returns to his earlier kindness that is a very good sign and result. If he does not care about your change, or notices it but does not make steps to save your relationship, then I do not advice you to struggle for his love. Then he is in love with just himself. If so, let him to remain in this stupid status.

Answer #2

You cant make something work if the other party isnt willing! Sounds like hes slowly fading away. A year is a long time to be with one person when youre young. He just doesnt have those “feelings” for you anymore. It happens. Sometimes we think we are so in love with someone, and then all of a sudden it dies. (wasnt true love to begin with) Youve noticed how hes changed over time….you have to let him go if this is what he wants. Its his way of telling you that he wants out. Be upfront with him and let him know how your feeling…hopefully he’ll be open and honest with his feelings about you. If in fact his feelings are changing…theres nothing you can do, but except it and move on!

Answer #3

It sounds like he just wants some space from you, you have been together for a year now maybe right now he just wants to spend some time with the other people in his life becos he doesnt want to get bored of you. But if thats the case he should speak to you about it instead of treating you this way becos your upset becos of his actions. I recommend talking to him, no yelling or immaturity, just talk to him about your feelings and if he gets huffy and puffy you walk out and tell him to talk to you when he grows up, your just trying to have a mature conversation about your feelings.

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