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I feel like ever since my last question my life has gone downhill. I feel that I don’t have any friends because this week at school I’ve been banned from my lunch table by who I thought to be my best friend. So now I sit with my boyfriend and he just keeps pressuring me to eat. I know that if I do though that I won’t stop and I’ll gain a bajillion pounds back. I have been getting lower on the scale side of things which is a plus. I’m doing softball and I’m a catcher and I feel like I’m trying my best but I have no energy to do anything. I cry all the time and think about what it’d be like to be just another 2, 3, or even 4 pounds lighter. Would people like me better? Would my boyfriend think I look sexier? I feel like I’m going into depression mode.

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Answer #1

Dear confused_babydoll, You have no energy because you’re not eating…You don’t handle your conflicts well because you’re too tired from not eating…you aren’t listening because you’re tired from…guess what…not eating. Your boyfriend is concerned and is asking you to eat because he’s worried and probably sees you have a problem. Your self-esteem has taken a plunge and it needs to be addressed. Make an appointment with your school counsellor and seek out their advice. When we place our happiness on our appearance this is a red flag telling us something is wrong. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

sue90 is pretty much right.

Answer #3

sounds like to me ur bf likes u the way u r cause he wants u to eat u need to eat that is y u are cryin and depressed and have no energy cause ur body has nothin to eat off of so eat ur not fat and skinny nt always sexii so just let ur self be ur self eat gurl cause all ur doin is hurtin ur self n others

Answer #4

sounds like to me ur bf likes u the way u r cause he wants u to eat u need to eat that is y u are cryin and depressed and have no energy cause ur body has nothin to eat off of so eat ur not fat and skinny nt always sexii so just let ur self be ur self eat gurl cause all ur doin is hurtin ur self n others

Answer #5

sounds like to me ur bf likes u the way u r cause he wants u to eat u need to eat that is y u are cryin and depressed and have no energy cause ur body has nothin to eat off of so eat ur not fat and skinny nt always sexii so just let ur self be ur self eat gurl cause all ur doin is hurtin ur self n others

Answer #6

you seriously need professional help, it sounds like you are suffering from depression and need to talk to someone professional about your problems. It also sounds like you have no self control, you cant even eat becos your scared your going to lose control and eat to much, thats called binge eating and thats caused by restricting your body so much that when it gets a taste of food you cant control yourself, starving yourself is harming you so much, you need to see someone quickly to get your life back together.

Answer #7

why dont you eat fruit because its berly any calleries also salad with light dressing is not many calleries

Answer #8

you need to start eating. you play a sport so you burn off calories. and the reason why you song have energy is because you don’t eat. listen to your boyfriend. eat healthy foods to stay healthy. you are pressuring yourself way to much to have that perfect body. please eat

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