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Pepper, I’ve seen your pictures before and you are a very attractive woman. I would never have dreamed you were 50 yrs young. The picture in your profile titled, “pepper” is your best pic. Now I’m going to give you some advice that just might be the problem/solution with your BF. First of all it’s not you!! I’m not the huggy- kissy type either just like your BF but I wish I was. My wife is just the opposite, she likes hugging and kissing, etc. but she was raised that way in her family. I wasn’t. If I were in your shoes I would seriously consider asking your BF to get a blood test to have his testosterone level checked. I’m very serious about this. I had mine checked when I noticed I was losing my libido and also when I wasn’t getting aroused as much when I saw any type of visual images, real or pictorial, e.g a bikini clad girl or girl wearing a thong, skimpily dressed dancers, etc etc.. My wife had previously talked this over with our MD and he suggested I come see him and he would fix it.Lo and behold my testosterone was low, below the low range for normal. He started me on the hormone injections but only 50 mg a month. That didn’t do the job. Later I started taking 100 mg a month and eventually had to raise it to 100 mg a week. That did the trick!! The average range for a man 45 y/o is around 300-1000 ng/dl and it takes at least 100 mg injections a week to reach that level. Now I have erections all the time, anytime day or night just like I did when I was 21 y/o and esp when I see my wife in something provocative or erotic looking. But hormones do not discriminate! They will cause a man to become aroused at any woman who looks s e x y to him, so you’ll have to keep him satisfied at home, which I’m sure you want to do.