What do you think (Yes I'm Stacy but I dont want to rewrite it)

I’ll answer this question for the last time, but first, I want to make a comment about your question: WHY do you keep sending basically the same question. this is like the 5th or more time that you’ve submitted a question about the 99 cent store and your mother. please, just let it go. this website is to give advice, not make comments about every little piece of your life and private arguments.

Stacy’s (your) mom probably is trying to get her (you) to not spend as much money on clothes and stuff that you dont need. just because you liked the wallets and they were at the 99 cent store, doesn’t mean that you have 2 buy them. she is concerned that you r going to waste all of you money on material possesions and not have enough money to pay your bills or use it for something that you really need later. even though you bought her those shirts out of love, she doesn’t want to be part of your crazy spending. basically she is saying: “Stop with the spending already!!! Save your money!!!”

I agree with the editor, you are bringing up the 99 cent store entirely too often. If your mother brings up anything at all…you ask her if she is including the 99 cent store. In regards to the question itself, your mother obviously just doesn’t want you spending all of your money on clothes and wallets and what have you, when you are going to have bills to pay soon. I don’t think that is such a horrible expectation and it’s advice any mother would give, especially when you don’t have any income coming in. Maybe you could get a job at the 99 cent store…that way you would have money and you would always be at the 99 cent store.

I think she said those things out of anger - we all get like that sometimes. The best thing to do is not fight back and just compromise. Yelling at each other just makes it worse.

EXACTLY, ty and editor

I think you might want to consider seeing a therapist or psychiatrist…this type of obsession (over arguments with your Mom and the 99 cent store) is not normal. Even in the dialogue you give to us, you bring up the 99 cent store even when your Mom isn’t talking about it. You have an unhealthy obsession and I think getting professional help for this OCD would improve your relationship greatly.