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What do I do now because I am scared of losing him?

I have been friends with this guy some 3-4 years back and I loved him so much but I was not showing it and he showed that he loved me too. The problem I had with him was that he had too many girls around him and I felt I could not compete with them over him so I stopped communicating with him. Just recently he requested my friendship on a social site and I accepted and added him and we started talking again. He says he wished he had acted differently back then and that he loves me. He even asked me if I still have feelings for him which I do and I said yes. He didnt ask me out but he asked if I have a guy in my life and I said no; I asked him same question and he said no too so I assumed he wanted a relationship. Its been just 3 weeks since we started talking again and he’s 30 while I’m 27. I am scared if he will not want me because of my age and we are not presently in the same country now because I am away schooling so we have been been communicatin through messenger and phone calls. I love him and I am scared of losing him because I want him to marry me; please what do I do?

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If you love this guy you dont want to lose him bc no other guy will feel the same. You and him are old enough to settle down. Keep talking to him he wants to get to know you again . I am sure he loves you just as much as you love him. The distance thing is the only thing keeping yell apart. So get close again and phone calls are really good. Finish school move back to him and start your life. Wish you the best.

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