What do I do if I want to break up with my long distnace boyfriend?

Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 6 months now, and I don’t know if I can take this long distance any more. We never get to see eachother, literally NEVER. I love him and all it’s just that sometimes he does things that upset me so much I do something stupid, such as cut myself. And we’re only 14. We have broken up twice aleady, and the days that we did, all I did was cry, and all he did was mope around the house. I can’t be happy with him, but I can’t be happy without him either. I just don’t know what to do anymore. Please Help

Answer #1

I dont do it often or anything I just do it when I get really mad at myself. and we have broke up, and that just made me even moe upset. even not talking to him for a night makes me cry and automatically miss him like hell.

Answer #2

as you said you’re only 14 years old… how do you even know for sure you can’t live without him?… I’d really want you to talk with your parents about you cutting yourself… cutting isn’t cool nomatter what age you are… the younger the more immature and is something that need to be taken care of now before it gets worse. I know a girl your age who doesn’t know what real relationship is about and think that cutting is weird n’ let me quote her ‘’I just think I dunno… that it must hurt like hell. Why would anyone do something that hurts so much?”…

I suggest you break up with him, give it some time so you can heal up and start being happy again… Then try n’ live a teenage life without feeling sad, sorrow or the need to cut yourself… each cut you take is a deeper cut in the ties you got to your friends and family.

I am sorry if I seem a bit worked up about this, but I have a hard time respecting people who cut themselves… please don’t take it personaly

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