What do I do? Help!?

Ok so my boyfriends have a lot of friends that are girls which I don’t have a problem with but lately they have been getting mad b/c apparently they think that I am trying to take him away from them which is not true. I mean yea sometimes I get a little upset when he flirts with some of them and hugs them in front of me but what girlfriend wouldn’t? I don’t say anything I just get quiet when that happens but they’re blaming me because he doesn’t talk to them or text them ad much as he used to before he got with me. What do I do about this? Please give me some advice on this. Thanks!

Answer #1

unless you consult him or have a fight until you confess with your tears, he probably wont stop. that’s man..

Answer #2

its not your fault…

theres a certain ammout of touchy feely between mates but when your missus is there all the touchy feely goes to her… a hug is fine, its when they start the kissing on the cheeks you start thinking, ‘hmmm whats going on here then?’

if he doesnt speak to them as much because hes now got a missus and their being ratty about it their not much of a friend tbh

if their that pissed off they must have some type of feeling toward him and now you have him and their taking it out on you… which is just b!tchy fied.

tell him whats happening and that you dont mind him having girl mates and that he can talk to them but the cuddles and kisses are all yours.

Answer #3

Well it sounds like they are traying to take him away from you.

Talk to your boyfriend and talk so your relationship can saty healthy.

Answer #4

Tell them and your boy friend how you really feel maybe it will help.And maybe tell them that you are his girlfriend you are supposed to spend time with him. Rite?

Answer #5

Uhm nothing? It is his choice what he does. He can choose to spend time with them or not. Tell them to talk to him.

Answer #6

Point out the fact, he is his own person…you nor anyone else has control the decisions he makes, so don’t blame me.

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