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What do I do and is my boyfriend pressuring me...?

Okay. I’m 14 and My boyfrind will me 16 in a couple of months.. I do Weed REGULARLY // a lot more than I should. And, the effect isn’t as strong it used to be. So, my boyfriend said he would do Speed with me.. Should I trust him, or is he just presuring me for sex, because I know he’s not a virgin, and I DO love him, we’ve been dating for 8 months.. But, Idn if he really wants to get me a better high or just get in my pants.. Should I do speed..? Should I sleep with him ( I do want to, but I want to wait ‘til I’m in Grade 10 at least…)..? Please Help Me…

(And should I continue to do drugs at all… Like, I know “Drugs are bad, blah blah blah…” No, their not. Drugs are GOOD. And they make you FEEL GOOD. And help you cope with bad stuff(they don’t let you swear on here)… But, I don’t want this to be the path I end up on in the future.. Right now,, I don’t give a poop Lmaoo. NO SWEARING!! Ha. Ha. Ha. … but later on..)

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Answer #1

Yea.. Thank you for trying to help.. But you don’t understand.. I can’t just stop doing it [drugs..] and your never too young to be in love.. That’s what I think.. But yes.. he IS a bad influence.. But I always go for the “bad boys” so.. yea.

Answer #2

No. you should not do speed. the effects would be too much for someone of your age. And you shouldnt be smoking, but if you decide to continue then I suggest quiting for a while. the effects of weed do become weaker the more and longer you smoke, but if you stop and let your body cleanse itself and start back it will be almost like your first time. and no to the sex, if your not ready then dont do it. and finally you should dump your boyfriend he’s a bad influence. you dont know what love is your too young.

Answer #3

I think ur right nvr to young for love but stop with the drugs! think about it do you really want to be HIGH when you have your first time with him? it should be romantic and it’ll be like ur having fake feelings @ the time.

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